Hukum Berjabat Tangan dengan Wanita Lansia Non-Mahram (Studi Komparatif Mazhab Hanafi dan Mazhab Syafii)
The Ruling on Handshaking with Elderly Non-Mahram Women: A Comparative Study between the Hanafi and Shafi'i Schools of Thought.
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https://doi.org/10.36701/mabsuth.v1i2.2552Keywords:
Handshake, Elderly woman, Mahram, Hanafi school of thought, Syafii school of thought, Comparative jurisprudenceAbstract
This research seeks to examine the overall Islamic ruling regarding the practice of handshaking, to analyze the legal status of handshaking with non-mahram women, and to compare the differing views between the Hanafi and Shafi’i schools regarding this practice, specifically in the case of elderly women. This study employs a qualitative method with a library research approach and comparative analysis of primary and secondary fiqh sources from both schools. The findings indicate that, in general, handshaking is recommended in Islam as an expression of brotherhood and social bonding. However, both the Hanafi and Shafi’i schools agree on the prohibition of handshaking between men and non-mahram women. The Hanafi school allows exceptions for elderly women, provided there is no sexual desire involved, while the Shafi’i school prohibits it unconditionally. This research contributes to the contemporary fiqh discourse by offering a critical comparative study of gender interaction within the framework of Islamic law.
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